Last month we delved into cultivating curiosity for our sons.  Whether you found that uncomfortable or enlightening, the process of becoming a little more curious (and less judgmental) opens [...]

Curiosity or Judgment.  Which do you jump to most readily? After years (decades, really) full of judgment ~ mostly for myself, but if I’m going to be honest, also for others ~ learning how to [...]

“The belief that Edward was close enough to see the smoke would give my few men hope, and men with hope fight better….” (Cornwell, The Pagan Lord, p. 300) When I came across this sentence in my [...]

Do you ever find yourself liking the idea of something but not really wanting to do what it takes to actually have it or do it?  For example, I have a whole stack of books I want to read, but I [...]

When your son’s life seems to be spiraling out of control, it is so normal and natural to get sucked into that vortex of believing it will never get better, he will never change, and you’re [...]